- Dmitry is the son of Shkrabov Mikhail Konstantinovich, the Chairman of the Foundation Board of the «GlavStroy» building company
- Works as a Development Director of “GlavStroy”
- Used to be in occultism and different spiritual practics
- Liked hiking, motorcycle riding, also took part in a cycling expedition in August 2001
- Officially married Valeria in 2007 (both didn’t want to become officially married for a long time)
(see Valeria is finally married to Dmitry for more pictures)
- For some odd reason, Valeria and Dmitry always keep their distance between each other when they appear in public (see paparazzi pictures and the spy video below)
Rumours & unproven information:
- Dmitry and Valeria live in open relationship according to her old post and these pictures of Dmitry, but Valeria denies this now (just like many other things from her past)
- (rumours) A veteran insekt onav who claims he is an old friend of Valeria’s family says that Ivan Pashkeev told him that Dmitry often goes on business trips, but in fact he visits other women while Valeria goes more and more crazy with loneliness. Does this seems like truth or not – judge for yourself. Rumors are still just rumors.
In Valeria’s words:
I never wanted to be totally independent. Conversely, I saw how my mom works really hard, without my dad, to feed two of her kids… Yes she was all so independent.. but..
Since my childhood I was dreaming about a husband who will work hard himself, and I wouldn’t have to do anything)))) Though I had some ambitions, but then I got into esoterics…
In general, I support the idea that a husband should provide his wife. And if a wife works, she does it only for her pleasure. But I haven’t found a job like this((((
- Valeria Lukyanova
The story of their meeting:
Well my dad and Dima were old friends (now they have quarrelled)
Once Dima asked my dad to bring him together with a pretty and smart girl, because he was itched to marry. And my dad is a forever young ladie’s man, all his girls were not older than 30 y.o., so he meets his friends with his ex-girlfriends all the time. And so he decided to introduce Dmitry to one whore, she is a future journalist and kind of. She is only 21 y.o., but she has already opened her legs for my dad. And so he decided to help her by bringing her together with Dima, after all he is rich and kind of. My dad told him. And of course Dima was glad. (…) But since she wasn’t home, he came to me. I was sitting in prostration then, buzzed, and was staring blankly to my reflection in the mirror. I was in a horrible depression then. Valerka (that’s how I call my dad) offered me to come outside, to unwind, he said that his friend are outside, and they are going to grandma, and he offered me to join them. And I agreed because it’s better than rotting at home. And so then I saw Dima, got a crush on him immediately like an idiot, but that’s what’s funny… Once Valerka showed a picture of me to Dima, and when he saw me, he said that he don’t want to be brought together with anyone, because he likes me. And Valerka promised that I will be with him soon. So that’s how they bargain behind my back. And we live together for 3 years already. And that’s how I got into their nets. I think that’s just not fair on their side, and I have a feeling that I was betrayed, my dad simply gave me to him like if I was just a thing, and I trusted them. I am dissapointed……………….
Version 2, a little more romantic
Dima was 24 then, and I was 16… Dmitry practised esoterics since he was 16… He also used to live alone since 16… We met each other a couple of times during childhood..
To be honest when I saw Dima I literally got a crush… I was shocked… I guess that’s what is called love at first sight… Curiously enough, that evening Dima not only invited me to get an initiation, but also relax at his country house , on the sea… Of course I agreed. <…> A couple of days after I was with him… Got an initiation…And by the way I used to keep paper diaries then and write down what is in my heart… I pasted Dima’s business card and a photograph of him into my diary and I was writing about how much I love him, endless poems etc… During the first days Dima was showing me the city, we walked..
We also used to convince each other that he is not my type of a man, and I am not his type of a girl, but nevertheless we walked hugging each other, saying to ourselves that we’re just good friends…
He believed me that he is not in my taste, and I believed him that I am nothing but a friend to him, at this time I wemt to him in odesa, to get an initiation into meditation, and he was kinda the main in it…. I stayed at his house … And wrote poems in his honour at nights…. <…> I showed my poems to Vadik [Dmitry's friend]… he understood everything… He promised he will be silent… But no way, he told Dima everything…… But thanks to that we kissed for the very first time that evening….. This is so wonderful to remember everything connected with him! I love him so much!!!!!
The Story of Their “First Time”:
It was difficult to sleep with him in 1 bed… He was attempting to molest me all the time… Once he went a bit far and sticked his hand under my bra, of course I hit him really painfully and created a scandal. After that he didn’t try to do anything like this for 5-6 months. I told him that I am a virgin and there’s no sense to try until I decide myself. And since Dima is very prideful he said that soon I will be begging him myself…
Of course I was very flattered when he told me that he has never met such an unattainable girl before …Btw after about 2 weeks of dating him he offered me to marry him. But I turned it into a joke. But when he found out that I love him, he offered me to live together, of course I agreed, and my mom understood me, especially since our families know each other for a long time…
Then we went to my city… We decided to take a ride on the ship which belonged to the parents of my first love, Sasha… We got awfully drunk…. And smoked… And we’ve rent a deluxe cabin… Sasha’s cabin… And that evening I decided to do it, this was kind of a revenge. That night Sasha was on the ship.. And he saw me with Dima, he saw us renting a cabin, I will never forget his face at that moment. That night everything happened… I won’t go into details, but there wasn’t pain, everything was at the highest level…
But no matter what Valeria says about herself, she is just a woman, and Dmitry is just a man, so their life together couldn’t be perfect:
Dima is a tyrant!!
I’m so tired of it, this is something horrible. When I recieve sms that’s not me run to my cellphone, he does! What’s wrong with him! I’m tired of him, he wants to know everything!!! He says he want to know and control every one of my steps! There’s more, when we go somewhere together, he organize my wardrobe and tell me what I should or shouldn’t put on, he is always unhappy with my makeup , my nails and their color! My style and my medallions! I’m tired of it!!! And when I don’t follow his instructions he starts offending like if he was right! I don’t care what clothes he wears, I love him the way he is, but he attempts to change me all the time, for three years of our living together he still didn’t understand that no one and nothing in this world will make me change!
I HATE DIMA HE IS A COMPLETE JERK. He kicked our neighbour’s cat when it came to us. Moron. Motherfucker. I HATE THIS ANIMAL. I hope arabs will kick his fucking kids to death if someday he have one.
After that Dima came to Lera to apologize and made up with her, wearing the… Mask Of Repentance?
13 May 2005
Dima hides the modem from me….
It’s 2 time already……
Looks like my Dima don’t want me to communicate with you….
30 May 2005
“Dolls”, the movie….
…..i watched it that day when I got betrayed….by a man i worshipped ..idealized….adored…and loved with my whole heart….he betrayed me…. he brought me that movie and said being tough and cold: there is no love….
….and then everything started ruining… You see what I’ve become. Read my blog and you’ll see. I’ve lost my mind with this pain…….But that should had been and that has became so. I’m a little drunk, never mind……
I’ve watched that movie the second time in my life and felt the pain……. These associations… And the movie reveals the essence too……
I’ve drank a bottle of wine and smoked 3 packs of cigarettes…….
The movies’ plot:
“Young man marries to a woman he doesn’t love for his career, and his real beloved woman loses her mind.
A man broke up with his beloved woman for that [???] promotion. But she went to a place where they should had met many years ago….
A fan of a pop star gouges out his eyes, when a girl get into a car accident.
Passion is insane and horrible. But it’s real life, or real death?……………
So about the ending. First couple died… The second couple fallen apart too because a man was murdered. And the third couple died too because a blind man fell off a cliff………….
So many tears and pain. That was the last time….
I’ve seen our old photo albums, a lot of them…… And I asked myself, did he ever love me…… The answer is clearly NO…
I would give Dima one more chance, no – 10000000000000000 chances……………
But he doesn’t need that………………….
i just can’t understand why he is still with me……….
I LOVED HIM SO MUCH………………………………………..
So much time has passed…. but the pain doesn’t go away……..
I run from it…………….but it always overtakes me…………
I haven’t write here about myself because I don’t want unauthorized persons to read this…
I’ve started thinking about divorce. Dima drinks, smokes, and doesn’t want to lose weight. He simply degrades. I realized that he doesn’t have willpower at all. I don’t know how to keep living with him. I can’t look at how he degrades. I think looking at your beloved man’s coming down is the most terrible thing. If I didn’t love him everything would be easier…
I don’t want to say he drinks and smokes a lot.. Like before. But I don’t drink and smoke.. I want him to fit my level. I can’t say he gained a lot of weight.. But I work on myself all the time, and HE DOESN’T! <…> Nobody knows how beautiful Dima was when we first started dating. Very slender.
I can see that I really change myself, yes i don’t have to work.. i don’t provide the family.. he does it, and I’m really THANKFUL to him for it… I take care of myself. But many wives from our circle do the same- and they don’t look like me! They go to clubs, do drugs, drink, cheat on their husbands etc and they look bad, though it’s obvious they’re trying hard.
And I spiritually developped myself, read a lot, go to different seminars and courses… <…> I don’t sit on the ground. I improve myself all the time…. And he just works- like he can’t do anything else… he simply doesn’t want to. He is happy with his life. And I’m not. I’m not happy and I can’t tolerate his weakness. He degrades… because he simply SITS ON THE GROUND <…> Too bad he doesn’t understand this. I can’t love a weak man. But I love him…… i still love him, but i feel disappointed ..more and more. I feel that i am stronger than him . And don’t want it!!!! I want us to be equal or him stronger. But not ME! ….
But after all,
Dima was, is and forever will be the only man in my life. Has he disappointed me? Of course he has…But then I thought that I will never get someone better, especially since I’ve realized during my spiritual practices that having sex partners is highly unwelcome I realized that I’ve already made an irrevocable mistake… I can’t say I don’t love him any more I do. I’m not afraid of saying that, and I don’t have anyone closer than him in this world. So we just keep living together for five years already…
But Dmitry also knew what girl he got from the beginning of their relationship:
In Turkey Dima proved that he loves me.,he is such a secretive person he’s afraid to show or prove anything.
I offered him to break up and said i don’t fit him.
1. I will never marry him and never give him a child.
2. I will never become like others and always will be inconstant and changeable.
3. There will never be cleanliness in my house, because I am not a standard person and there is always a creative mess at my home.
So generally i listed to him a whole bunch of terrible details explaining that I will never become a standard which all men always strive, but he replied that he is happy with all of that, and he loves me and he agrees with everything, and there’s more he supports me in it. How do you like it?
AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA i love my boy!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Dmitry about his wife and her life as an internet celebrity, during the little video interview in 2012:
In our family… Let’s say maybe you teach your dad or maybe your mom how to work, but our family is different. She does whatever she likes, she doesn’t give me advices about my work, I don’t give her advices about her work…
Well this is her creative life. I don’t think about it, I have enough time to think about other things. Well, let’s say she has some of her own creative life. I’m not really interested in it, to be honest.
- Dmitry Shkrabov
Valeria and Dmitry in 2008:
Valeria and Dmitry in 2012 (spy video)