Before we start, I think I should tell you a little about Olga “Olya” Gavrilyuk to not start from the end, because you don’t know anything about this girl yet. Later I will post her full biography, I’m currently working at Valeria’s family member’s biography.
Anyway, a few things you should know now, before reading this drama:
1. Olga Gavrilyuk prefers to be called Olya (it’s the nickname from the name Olga), I hope you won’t be confused about this in the future. To avoid any misunderstanding I suggest to always call her Olya, not Olga. Also, Olya’s nickname given by insekts is Gavrila, so if I call her that in the future, please excuse me and don’t get confused, this is just a very old habit of an insekt lol
2. Olya is a very old friend of Valeria’s (they’re friends for 6 years already), but they are not that close after a big drama on July Katarzhnova’s page which happened in 2011 (as I remember). Anyway, they were very close for many years.
Well I guess now you know enough about Olya to read the following drama. Enjoy!
Today I had to wake up early because of some things to do, I applied a mask and heard how people in the stairwell go down the stairs and go to work… And I thought how wonderful that I don’t need to wake up in the morning and go to work… My school and institute used to annoi* me so badly because of this, I felt like a real slave, who owe something for society for the term of my life… And now I’m finally on my own, free like birds, do whatever I want**! This is such a wonderful feeling) And my friend Dominika leads the same creative way of living, just like me, we both get high from the complete freedom) And then I thought, how many people don’t know that they can live this way as well, and don’t even allow themselves to think about it. Of course it’s way easier for girls, because men take care of us, and they have another function by the right of their gender, protect and defend us)*** But most of girls don’t allow themselves thoughts like linking their lives with a real man, who will take care of them, so they won’t need to work. Most girls can’t feel themselves as a real girl, because of their american dream of achieving their goals by themselves, asserting themselves in front of a man and showing their strength in their chasing of material independence) But I’m not talking about this, I want to say that if a man really loves you, he will never allow you to work, especially if you don’t want to… And I’m very happy by the fact that more and more of my friends find themselves such men, I’m sincerely very happy for them! This is so wonderful!
* Yes yes we can see how your school annoied you because of your spelling. I usually correct her mistakes because people can get confused with these mistakes adapted to English and think these were MY mistake as a translator, but I’ve decided to keep this one mistake because it looks very funny in the context.
** She sounds like a person who have just quit her job, but she never worked in her life completely relying on her husband Dmitry and his money. Seriously, she never worked. So maybe she means her seminars (which she used to conduct about two times a year)
*** Funny how she always tells about men’s duties like protecting their women and bringing money to their family, but she never even think about her women duties like being a good wife – cook, clean house etc., and giving birth and raising children. Sure she has no duties, “by the right of her gender”, duuh.
oh my this is so funny)) what asserting in front of men are you talking about?? Lera you say nonsense just as always, this is not the reason why girls actually work – they work just because they need to live, dress themselves, help their parents! Also, a job is a sort of self-development and communication… Furthermore not every girl can be that lucky to meet a good man, especially now*, and you know it, just like your Dominika))) if her boyfriend will decide to switch to younger and more housewifely girl, i mean taking care of the house… creating a family..and your Dominika will be left with a d…k**….because she can’t do anything in her life !!!
* I assume she’s talking about the current level of economics and culture in developing countries like Ukraine and Russia, but this just my opinion, I can’t know for sure.
** russian rude expression, literally: “to be left with a dick” = “to be left with nothing”
Thanks dear Olya for the compliment saying I usually say nonsence, you’re very kind and happy as I can see))))
These things are that easy now, while we’re young, but after 35-40 years old…we will have to bend over and fall over ourselves to keep a man who will provide for us – that’s what can be called a humiliation, not working! today you have a man..tomorrow he’s gone, became disabled, died or something )) and that’s when all your triumphant tone will be gone!!!\ or went bankrupt)) or had problems with money, like Igor..and that all, finita la comedia…go find another man…and how many men want to completely provide a woman???and how many women want to do nothing and simply hang around their men’s necks,loads of them… so men can change a woman every year
Olya, i know a lot of examples when 35-40 y.o. women look super, and everything is ok in their personal life. But since you think negatively, of course you will be left with nothing all alone and you will just have to work.
The triumphant tone will always stay with kind and self-reliant girls. Men don’t like angry girls full of arrogance.. think about it…
I wonder…Doesn’t this style of living make you feel like a useless biomass?If you have a job that you enjoy, you won’t actually work any day for the rest of your life)
xxx, exactly, 100%..i usually don’t work at all in winters…suffering for doing nothing for 2 months, I really feel like I’m turning into a vegetable during this time!!!! sitting on the internet all day long, walking, sleeping, eating)))) After all, a job keeps you in a good shape..
and I don’t think I assert myself in front of someone by working! not at all! of course when I will have a family and a husband who will be able to provide me, maybe I will spend my time more at home, but I will work anyway, not because I have an american dream, but just because I think people should be independent in my opinion, no matter if you earn only $100, you do something in your life and you’re not a vegetable, that’s the thing that really matters..and in any negative situation (god save!) you won’t be left starving!
But smart women, exactly smart, understand that nothing in this world lasts forever, and while they live with a man who completely provide for them, they open their business to not be left with nothing in the future…the world is very predictable, just like life. today you hit, tomorrow you miss.
…xxx, I’m not afraid of this, if she will decide to ban me – no problem…this will only show her human weakness.
Those men who earn a lot of money live a double life.Their credo when they have loads of money in their pocket: “Take everything from this life”.When you will be 40, they will find a young girl, and you will be left without any pensionable service and only with your memories.
You know Olya, from the side this looks like ur jealous, no offence. It’s just too many of venom.
Valeria, everyone is jealous of you, didn’t you know that??? all your friends,i mean all your ex friends ))) They’re JEALOUS )))) btw this is the reason why you never could be in a long-term relationship with anyone, how did it happen that you’re so kind and no one wants to stay in good relations with you for a long time?? i’ll tell you why- because you don’t respect other people’s opinion if you can’t understand it.. I was convinced by my own example that people can rely only on themselves..and you call that an american dream, isn’t this nonsense???
Olya, this is only your words and for your regret it has no relation to reality)
I suggest for you to think why you can’t be in good relations with people if you’re all so kind and self-reliant….you fight with people all the time….the only friend you still have is Olya [Dominika], and honestly if I was her, I would think about communicating with you,because if her boyfriend will leave her, you won’t need her without money..am I wrong???
Olya, I haven’t seen you so angry for a long time, it looks like steam is coming out of your ears right now… maybe i should ban you again, before your anger make you completely mad, I’m very worried about your state of mind.